you don't share your struggles to everyone. all these people only wanna know what are the results from your struggles, and that is that. they want to know either you graduated from school or drop out somewhere in the middle, they wanna know if you have job and make some money (and if you do, they wanna know how many cash you make per month), they wanna know when it's you will get married (and if you're married, they ask you bout when to get kids, when to make another kids, and whatnot) and a lot of other stuff. you don't need me to mention all of them, you know how it goes.
human beings are creatures of habit. so deal with it, the piece of shit people are gonna serve to you.